This topical guide on calming a fussy baby will introduce you to important books, videos, and information resources available from the EI Clearinghouse.
Contact us via online form or by phone (1-877-275-3227) to request a resource listed below (or ask your local public librarian).
Calming Your Fussy Baby: The Brazelton Way
T. Berry Brazelton and Joshua Sparrow
In this book, Dr. Brazelton describes the ways that babies communicate through crying and discusses effective ways that parents can respond to different cries.
WS 113 .B827c 2003 50782929
How to Say No to Your Toddler
Broadway Books, 2003
This book focuses on how to convey “No” to a toddler in a way that will help to prevent temper tantrums, as well as other aspects of toddler development that trigger tantrums.
HQ 774.5.W687 2003 51898786
I Brake for Meltdowns: How to Handle the Most Exasperating Behavior of Your 2- to 5-Year-Old
Michelle Nicholasen and Barbara O’Neal
Da Capo Press, 2008
This book includes real-life stories about temper tantrums and other challenging behaviors and how to manage them successfully.
HQ 774.5 N596 2008 193906072
The Happiest Baby on the Block: The New Way to Calm Crying and Help Your Newborn Baby Sleep Longer
Penguin Random House, 2015
This fully revised and updated book includes the latest insights into infant sleep, bedsharing, breastfeeding, swaddling, and SIDS risk.
WM 188 .K148 2015 906447618
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The Happiest Toddler on the Block
Bantam Books, 2008
This book explains how tantrums in toddlers are normal but avoidable, what leads to temper tantrums, how to communicate effectively with toddlers, and how to reduce tantrums.
HQ 774.5 K18h 2008 221664776
The wonder weeks : how to stimulate your baby’s mental development and help him turn his 10 predictable, great, fussy phases into magical leaps forward
KW Publishing, 2013
The book is based on the scientific- and parental-world-changing discovery of a phenomenon: all normal, healthy babies appear to be more fussy at very nearly the same ages, regression periods, and sleep less in these phases.
HQ 778.63 .van21 2013 858845874
Toddler discipline for every age and stage: effective strategies to tame tantrums, overcome challenges, and help your child grow
Rockridge Press, 2018
The book offers practical, age-appropriate toddler discipline strategies for managing the everyday challenges of toddlerhood and guiding your child to becoming their best self.
HQ 774.5 .H37 2018 1066231189
Toddlers’ Tantrums and Other Bad Behavior
Carroll & Brown, 2004
This book includes information about temper tantrums, including steps for parents to prevent them from happening.
HQ 774.5.M159t 2004 53962402
Contact us to request a resource listed below (or ask your local public librarian). Some videos may be viewed online.
Baby instructions. Newborn to crawler
Meridian Education Corp., 2013
61 min; DVD
This video helps parents and caregivers create the best possible environment in which to maximize a baby’s learning potential. Topics include gross motor development, reading a baby’s cues, tummy time, language development, crawling, communication, calming an infant, establishing routines, feeding, encouraging play, and dressing.
WS 105 .B119new 2011 860702354
Toddlers: Social and Emotional Development
28 min; DVD
Learning Seed, 2009
This closed-caption DVD includes information on how toddlers come to understand how their actions, including tantrums, can affect others.
WS 105.S678 Vol.2 311565119
132 min; DVD
By watching a dozen families in unique situations, Dr. T. Berry Brazelton shows how and why children develop the way they do. Touchpoints are defined as periods of time that precede rapid growth in learning for parent and child. This DVD provides comprehensive information on development of infants and toddlers, including how to manage temper tantrums and excessive crying appropriately.
WS 105 .T722d 2006 75553551
Fussy Baby Network
If you’re struggling to care for a baby who is fussy, crying excessively, or has difficulties with sleeping or feeding, contact the Fussy Baby Network at Erikson Institute. Call our warmline at 1.888.431.BABY (2229) for telephone support nationwide. Services available in Spanish and English.
The journal titles linked below will take you to the publisher’s homepage. You can ask your local public librarian how to obtain these articles or contact us for more information.
Early Childhood Today, 21(4),27–28
Understanding Children’s Anger: Recognizing and Working with Young Children’s Anger and Frustration
Alice Sterling Honig. (2007)
This article explains why infants and toddlers often become frustrated and provides caregivers with tips on how to respond appropriately. Direct link to article is available.
Technical Assistance Center on Social Emotional Intervention (TACSEI) Backpack Connection Series
How to Help Your Child Recognize and Understand Anger
Alyson Jiron, et al. (2012)
There are many things that make children angry, and children feel anger in different ways — just as adults do. As with all emotions, when you help your child recognize and name his anger you have helped him take the first step toward being able to control his own behavior.
The web resources listed below provide quick and easy access to evidence-based online information.
Fuss Management: Comforting the Irritable Child
You’re out in public with your toddler or preschooler when the whining starts. Don’t panic! When you take a calm, problem-solving approach, you help your child learn to calm himself when he is irritable. Also in Spanish and Polish
Fuss Management: Planning Ahead to Prevent Tantrums
There’s no sure cure for young children’s public temper tantrums. But some simple steps can reduce the chances that your toddler or preschooler will “pitch a fit” when you run errands together. Also available in Spanish and Polish.
Fussy Baby Network
Services available from the network include parent groups, a “warmline,” and an infant specialist who will work with parents to find effective ways to care for their baby. All services are available in English and Spanish.
How to Calm a Fussy Baby: Tips for Parents & Caregivers
This page, from the American Academy of Pediatrics, provides several tips for calming and comforting a crying baby. Also available in Spanish.
Temper Tantrums (Medline Plus)
This website from the U.S. National Library of Medicine and the National Institutes of Health provides information to understand temper tantrums and what parents can do when children exhibit this behavior. Also available in Spanish.
Temper Tantrums: Guidelines for Parents
This website from the National Association of School Psychologists provides information for parents and teachers on how to manage temper tantrums, prevent them from happening, and what to do after they occur.
Understanding Children: Temper Tantrums
This pamphlet from Iowa State University provides information about temper tantrums and questions for caregivers to create a “plan of action” for the child.