Play Buffet: Birth to 12 Months

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Children learn best through play. The Play Buffet is a way to think about offering your child a variety of play experiences — just like choosing from different foods at a buffet. Here are some toy and activity ideas to support development from birth to 12 months. Many activities build skills in more than one developmental area, so try to include a variety each week.

Sensory

Textured blankets, fabric squares, soft teethers, water play, edible finger paint

Cognitive/Fine Motor

Rattles, soft blocks, high-contrast toys, nesting cups, simple shape sorters, grasping rings, cause-and-effect toys

Social/Emotional

Stuffed animals, simple dolls, pretend feeding, toy keys, caregivers role play

Language/Communication

Board books, nursery rhymes, peek-a-boo, pat-a-cake, caregiver singing, musical rattles, toy phones

Gross Motor

Tummy time mats, play gyms, soft balls, push/pull toys, crawling tunnels, supported standing

Note for Families: These are general guidelines meant to spark ideas and variety in play. Every child develops at their own pace — adjust based on your child’s unique needs, skills, and interests. Always consider safety first: supervise closely, avoid choking hazards, and choose age-appropriate materials.

Adapted with permission from “The Play Buffet” handout created by Terri Mussatto of Fruitful Play Developmental Therapy Services.

Publication date: 2026     Reviewed: 12/9/25